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She's Not There: A Life in Two Genders

She's Not There: A Life in Two Genders

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By Jennifer Finney Boylan NATIONAL BESTSELLER • The seminal work of trans literature: a story of love, sex, selfhood, and understanding from the renowned author of Cleavage and co-author of...

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By Jennifer Finney Boylan

NATIONAL BESTSELLER • The seminal work of trans literature: a story of love, sex, selfhood, and understanding from the renowned author of Cleavage and co-author of Mad Honey

“A very funny memoir of growing up confused and a very smart consideration of what it means to be a woman.”—Anna Quindlen

When she changed genders, she changed the world. It was the groundbreaking publication of
She’s Not There in 2003 that jump-started the transgender revolution. By turns hilarious and deeply moving, Jennifer Finney Boylan explores the territory that lies between men and women, examines changing friendships, and rejoices in the redeeming power of love and family. Boylan’s humorous, wise voice helped make She’s Not There the first bestselling work by a transgender American—and transformed Boylan into a national spokeswoman for LGBTQ people, their families, and the people that love them. This updated and revised edition includes an epilogue from Jenny’s wife Grace; it also contains the original afterward by her friend, novelist and Pulitzer Prize winner Richard Russo.

“Love will prevail,” said Boylan’s conservative mother, as she learned about her daughter’s identity.
She’s Not There is the story that helped bring about a world in which that change seems almost possible.

Paperback, 352 pages
Published by Crown (Apr 2013)
ISBN-13: 9780385346979
Dimensions: 13.18 x 1.78 x 20.29 cm

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